Glee is really getting on my nerves
The character of Kurt has bugged me a little since the show started. There've been other people who have objected to flaming, mincing, girly-boy Kurt being a symbol of gayness on the show. The fact is, most gay guys I've met aren't anything like that. Some have a stereotypical "gay accent", with a slight lisp, and other things that set my gaydar off, but the only time I've ever met anyone like Kurt was in college. There was this guy named Rory, and it was like his feet never touched the floor. He was so "in your face" and effeminate, and a friend of mine named Eric, who was his roommate, once walked in on him in bed with another guy. Eric slept in a sleeping bag in the hallway after that until housing services could find him another place to stay, and I have to say that I don't blame him.
When I was watching this last episode of Glee, and Kurt was being bullied by two jocks, I started to reconsider my feelings about his character. Maybe, I thought, it was a good thing to let sissy-boys like Kurt know that they have a right to express themselves and not to have to blend in. But then, there was the scene where Kurt's father reads Finn the riot act.
I can't even imagine a more inappropriate thing. I wanted to punch the father's lights out, and I wanted to yell at Finn for putting up with the browbeating. This wasn't a case of a guy freaking out about having to be near another guy who is gay. Kurt is freaking in love with Finn. Finn knows this. Kurt knows Finn is straight, but he never misses an opportunity to flirt with him, hit on him, make googly eyes at him.
Turn this around, and have a straight guy constantly acting that way to a lesbian, or a straight girl acting that way to a gay guy, and everyone can see how obnoxious and offensive and downright thoughtless it is. It's harrassment, plain and simple. But because Kurt is this heroically flaming poster-girl for the cause, it's just him expressing himself.
He isn't stupid. He knows what he's doing, and he knows how uncomfortable he's making Finn, and he just doesn't care. And then his father, who has learned the lesson that Kurt has the right to express himself, but in the meantime has forgotten that so does Finn, goes off on Finn as though he beat Kurt up.
Oh, I know. "Words can hurt." So what? He was the victim in that little scene. Not Kurt. And then to have Finn come along in a dress, saying that he was wrong and still has a lot to learn... what a crappy message. What a horrible, horrible message that sends.
True, if someone feels uncomfortable being around flamboyantly flaming fruity folks like Kurt, they need to grow up. Like those two jocks. But that doesn't mean that Kurt types have the right to constantly make advances on people they know aren't interested. One time, I get. But once it was clear that the Finn wasn't interested, Kurt should have backed off.
There were good things about the episode. "Beth" is one of my favorite songs in the world. I can't get over the fact that headbangers like Kiss created something so beautiful. Puck is really growing up. In fact, he may be one of the few people in the show who has progressed as a human being. But it doesn't make up for the brainwashing.